Don't try to trade up.
I see women online all the time who are looking to trade up.
It's as though their marriage is some weird sport and maybe
there is a better player out there for them.
Here's the trick to life. Ninety percent of the time, there isn't
someone better out there for you... or guess what... you're man
is the best thing in the world, but you're a dog that's too busy
sniffing the ass of another dog to realize that your husband's ass
smells like gardenias... and gardenias don't smell like boo boo.
Online you can be anything you want to be. And remember, the men...
they know this too. The men online are just as guilty...
fishing for a mermaid in a sea of sharks. There is a song with
the lyrics... "If you can't be with the one you love, love the
one you're with"
I love my husband, and not just cause he's the one with me.
I met my husband online. (well not in the usual sense, but
it was how we communicated originally, through a website..)
I wouldn't trade him for the Michael Jordan of marriage. If
sometimes our marriage seems like I'm playing basketball, while
he's playing tennis...I'm always amazed by the way he returns
the ball, using his racquet.